I think of their righteous reactions and my wrong reactions.Do i always react in the wrong way? This question in itself is a reaction of my past experiences.
This right of wrong has a lot to do with my own confidence,So what makes or what defines your confidence?Think of it a little deep, confidence itself is a reaction that your mind develops based or relying on its past experiences.So its up to us how we process those experiences.which would lead to into the state of confidence or of low esteem.Now, what level of control do we have on these processing(perceiving) methods.Defining these methods means that the natural reactions are no more natural.
Wait a second, isn't that 'natural' you a reaction again.?.....
Thursday, October 2, 2008
Thursday, September 18, 2008
Hyderabad's traffic.
Today,i was thinking about the poor traffic sense of the commuters in our city and was trying to find a solution to this ever existing problem.
I came through this blog http://trafficinhyderabad.blogspot.com/ which has done a lot of work in this regard already and has been working for more than an year. Congratulations to sameer on this great effort.I guess i will have a different post about his blog sometime later.
What is pretty evident is there are people putting in their efforts to deal with this problem.But the scenario doesnt seem to have changed much.I think we have to change our approach of arriving to a solution to this problem.
We have to deal with one problem at a time. i.e we have to deal with one type of user's at time rather than trying to bring a change in all the commuter's. Let's say we pick up a category of user's for example cab drivers. we can adopt various methods to make sure that these guys follow the rules. What i am trying to tell here is when we can not create awareness in people voluntarily we have to impose it.once the rules are imposed on one particular user, it finds its way into others as well.
So we have to form a group or network, since most of the people travelling in cabs are either IT or BPO employees it is easy to approach all these guys using a facebook group or a google group http://groups.google.com/group/trafficinhyderabad?hl=en. Then we make sure that we ensure that the cab driver's follow the rules.And how do we ensure that? ya we have ways to do that, sometimes we might have to take steps like complaining and other ways, neverthless what we want can be achived.
So once we manage to bring about change in one community of users, we can use media to propage the initiative and i see a light of change here..This might work.
I came through this blog http://trafficinhyderabad.blogspot.com/ which has done a lot of work in this regard already and has been working for more than an year. Congratulations to sameer on this great effort.I guess i will have a different post about his blog sometime later.
What is pretty evident is there are people putting in their efforts to deal with this problem.But the scenario doesnt seem to have changed much.I think we have to change our approach of arriving to a solution to this problem.
We have to deal with one problem at a time. i.e we have to deal with one type of user's at time rather than trying to bring a change in all the commuter's. Let's say we pick up a category of user's for example cab drivers. we can adopt various methods to make sure that these guys follow the rules. What i am trying to tell here is when we can not create awareness in people voluntarily we have to impose it.once the rules are imposed on one particular user, it finds its way into others as well.
So we have to form a group or network, since most of the people travelling in cabs are either IT or BPO employees it is easy to approach all these guys using a facebook group or a google group http://groups.google.com/group/trafficinhyderabad?hl=en. Then we make sure that we ensure that the cab driver's follow the rules.And how do we ensure that? ya we have ways to do that, sometimes we might have to take steps like complaining and other ways, neverthless what we want can be achived.
So once we manage to bring about change in one community of users, we can use media to propage the initiative and i see a light of change here..This might work.
Tuesday, March 4, 2008
Armpitologist
Armpitologist, Yes a person who studies the science of armpits.How many can believe this. What is even more interesting is that recent studies prove that the scent of armpits is the most important factor on which a women is attracted to the man. Whats even more interesting is the question, why we have armpits, they donot have any purpose like other hairy parts of the human body. Their main purpose is to attract.. Can you believe that...
Monday, March 3, 2008
Product of this society
Life must be almost same to so many people out there. An effort to make the loved ones happy, keep them safe from the bad things, try to earn more money, try to be a little ore innovative, try to be a little more popular, try to earn a little more respect, try to walk that extra mile, try to make your boss happy, An many and many trail and errors. When i am busy trying to accomplish so many things, someone comes to me all of a sudden from nowhere and advises me to do only things tht i love to do. Yeah . . . makes lot of sense. Now i have to start thinking about what i would like to, i think of it only to realize that i am not sure of what i would want to do, so i enroll myself to a selfhelp course because i was told that such things will help.
Epphh..This system.. I am so absorbed into this. Have i lost myself??
Epphh..This system.. I am so absorbed into this. Have i lost myself??
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